As the father of a son who's wife decided "she wasn't happy in their marriage" and now is suspected of having a "boyfriend" in spite of being married to a great, hardworking guy and a mother to young girls, I say a pox on your friend. I too was betrayed in my first marriage. It's devastating! Not all men are women chasers and lechers. I know half a dozen men who have been betrayed by their wives. There are too many young women today in the "me first" movement.