Gee. What Medium are you reading? Perhaps a few example links would have been in order. As a 'modern" man but born in 1943, I have been married for 52 years to a wonderful woman who owes me nothing, a wonderful daughter who owes me nothing, 2 sons who are wonderful fathers and husbands who I am sure feel as I do. I have 2 wonderful granddaughters, amazing wonders in my life! My select group of males friends in ages ranging from 50s to 90s are of the same ilk as I. Perhaps birds of a feather do hang together. Tarring all men with the same brush? Not good.